For as little as £24 per month, you can become a child sponsor and help us rescue a child in need. The costs of providing children with high quality care can vary greatly depending on the country and the needs of the children. Since our desire is to provide the best care possible, it may be necessary to allocate some of our children with more than one sponsor. £24 per month goes a long way, however, anything extra you feel able to give will be much appreciated.

Sponsoring a child is a great way for you to impact a child’s life. You encourage and support your sponsored child not only financially, but by sending letters and building a personal relationship with them. Your support enables them to feel loved and part of a family. Your monthly donation will be used to provide for your child’s individual needs as well all ensuring their school, home or care centre has everything it needs to transform kids’ lives. 

It goes towards providing the best care possible for the child you sponsor. This could be to provide 24hr care in a loving family home for a child who is orphaned or without a stable family environment. For children who have a family but have no access to an education, your sponsorship money will enable them to go to our school or care centre and provide them with a quality education. The costs of providing children with life-changing care can be very high and so your monthly donation will be used to provide for your child’s individual needs as well all ensuring their school, home or care centre has everything it needs to transform kids’ lives including committed teachers, books, pens and vital medical care.

It’s important to us that your money really impacts your child and provides them with the best care possible to transform their life. A minimum of 88% of your donation will be used to provide the child you sponsor with a life-changing education, daily meals and ensuring their school, home or care centre has everything it needs to help them thrive. We'll use the remaining 12% to support the work of Stand by Me and find a sponsor for the next child.

When you sponsor, we’ll allocate you a child according to your preferences and send you their photo and background story in the post. This helps you get to know your child and begin building a relationship from the start by sending a letter or email. We will then send you updates, photos and correspondence from your child throughout the year.

Yes. We welcome group sponsorships. You may want to sponsor a child through your school, social club, church group, brownies, scout group or business.

We provide the best care possible for each of our kids and endeavour to meet their individual needs. However, the costs of providing for a child vary greatly depending on the country and the type of care they need. Since our desire is to provide the best care possible for every child, it may be necessary to allocate some of our children with more than one sponsor. By our kids having a few sponsors each, we are able to provide them with care to transform their lives while ensuring they can benefit from having a genuine, personal relationship with their sponsors who act as aunts, uncles and grandparents to them. 

Yes, we would love you to do so. We want every sponsor to have a great relationship with their child and we will do our best to facilitate and encourage you to write as often as you can. Our kids love to receive letters, photos and donations to buy small gifts from their sponsor. These things quickly become treasured possessions and let your child know you care for them.

There are two ways to do this:

1. By post (which can include cards, letters, postcards & photos). You can download our reply template.
2. By email. Just send your message to mychild@standby.me

For both types of communication, please include the following information:

1. Your Name
2. Child's Name
3. Child's ID number
4. Programme Name

Please be aware that due to delays in international post and poor internet connection, you should allow at least 6 weeks for a postal response and 3 weeks for an email response.

You can send all correspondence to our England office.

Your postal correspondence will be forwarded to the child on a monthly basis.

All communication must travel via the Stand by Me UK office to ensure communications are appropriate. Direct contact with your sponsored child over social media, text, post or email is never acceptable as it undermines our safeguarding protocols.
If direct communication does occur, please let us know by contacting hi@standby.me so we can talk to your child and ensure they can stay safe.
It is our policy not to disclose your contact details to your child or the programme.

The first time you communicate with your child, you can introduce your family and possibly include a photo. Pets, hobbies and sports are always good topics to include.

• Ask your child what name they like to be known by. In some countries, the names are quite different to British names.  You could also tell them what you like to be called.
• Share about a national custom or holiday. Postcards of where you live or places you have visited are educational and interesting.
• Encourage your child to do their best at school.
• Include a question or two to give your child something to write about, and answer your child’s letter and any questions they have for you.
• Please avoid writing about personal problems where possible.
• Please do not include your contact details on any correspondence with your child.
• For more ideas, check out our sample letter.

Your child would love to receive emails, letters and photos to find out more about you. Due to the security issues and the cost of postal services in the countries where we work, we are unable to post any parcels to our children. Instead we recommend a monetary gift which will enable your child or our staff to choose a present that is culturally appropriate and supports the local economy, you can give between £10 - £25 to buy a gift for your child here.

That’s a great question! You can do that here. Or you can call us on 01708 442271 to make a card payment or you can send a cheque to our England office (made payable to Stand by Me) making it clear on the covering note that the cheque is for a gift for your child. Our overseas staff will then purchase a present on your behalf or your child will be able to choose a gift themselves. You can give an amount between £10 and £25 which goes far in buying something special while ensuring the children are treated fairly. You'll receive a letter from your sponsored child to let you know what was purchased with your donation. If you want to give more than £25 we will use the extra to provide gifts for unsponsored children.

In accordance with our child protection policy, we can sometimes facilitate the opportunity for a sponsor to meet their child. However, due to the security risks in certain countries a visit is not always possible.
Please get in contact with us on 01708 442271 or email hi@standby.me to find out more. 

We would love you to. We want to make it as simple as possible for you to communicate with your child. Please send any emails to mychild@standby.me. Just put your child's first name and ID reference number in the subject of the email. Please remember the internet connection can cause delays in some of our programmes, therefore we ask you allow up to 3 weeks for a response.

Every effort will be made to find the child a new sponsor.

We are committed to caring for the long term, to help them reach their full potential. If the child you sponsor attends one of our schools or care centre, our hope is to support them until they reach the end of their education, for some this may mean leaving school around the age of 18 to get a good job, while others may stay in our care longer as we support them through college, vocational training or through university. If your child is part of one of our Stand by Me homes or children's villages, they will likely stay in our care longer, until they can stand on their own two feet and support themselves. In some rare circumstances, children may leave our schools or care centres early if their family chooses to move away or if they decide they do not want to benefit from the programme any longer. No matter how long a child has been in our care, we will also see them as part of our Stand by Me family. 

Throughout your sponsorship we will be in regular contact with you to ensure you know how your child is progressing and keeping you informed of any difficulties they are experiencing. Should for any reason your sponsored child depart Stand by Me's care, whether this happens after they finish their education or if this happens unexpectedly, we will be in touch to discuss whether you would like to continue your impact by using your donations to sponsor another child or if you have other preferences about your donation. 

If you would like to impact the lives of children but don’t feel that sponsoring a child is for you, then please consider making a regular donation, which enables you to sponsor a home, school or provide monthly food to a child in our care. You will still have an amazing impact without sponsoring an individual child. There are also many other ways you can get involved.

Sponsoring a home or school is a great way of impacting the lives of many children. You can do this by signing up to give a regular donation and selecting an amount and country of your choice. If you want to discuss this further, please contact Nicola on 01708 442271 or Nicola@standby.me.

You can choose the amount you wish to donate (per month) and any contribution will make an impact on many of our children’s lives.

This is a great way of supporting many children, especially children who do not have a sponsor and without the commitment of writing to them. Your regular donation will go towards meeting the monthly needs of the children at the programme (home or school), including food, clothes, medical care and the salary of the teachers or carers. We’ll make sure you receive regular updates on how your donation is having an impact.